Greg came to us with a problem. "I can't seem to get women to
like me," he told us. "I mean, they like me as a friend, but when I try
to make things more romantic, it never works out. I haven't had sex
in over a year. What should I do?"
We hear stories like Greg's all the time. All sorts of men come
to us with their dating problems. Some are young, some are middleaged, some are older. Some are salesmen, some are computer programmers, some are executives. We've worked with college professors, as well as men who are their students. We've worked with men
who've never been married, and men who are divorced. We've
worked with rich men and poor men, attractive men and ugly men.
We've worked with men from as many different walks of life and
socio-economic strata as you can imagine.
All of them have come to us with the same problem: they can't
seem to get women to have sex and relationships with them. They
desperately wish they could be successful with women, but they
aren't, and it seems like the harder they try, the worse things get.
Greg says "I've all but given up dating because I'm so tired of the
pain and humiliation." His feelings are common among these These are good men. They are sincere and honest and would
make good lovers, boyfriends, and husbands. But they can't seem to
get women to even give them the time of day. They all find themselves living in hope—hoping that someday they will meet a woman
who them, hoping that someday they will magically figure out
how to attract women, hoping that someday they will, through some
mysterious process, turn into super-studs.
Obviously, living in hope doesn't work, especially about something important like relationships with women. It's like hoping that
your apartment will get clean, but not cleaning it. It's like hoping
that you will have enough money for your retirement, but not saving for it. You have to take the proper actions consistent with your
commitments, not just live in hope.
Very occasionally you may meet a woman with whom everything goes right, no matter what you do, but such occasions are rare.
Romance rarely "just happens." Hope alone will not give you the
relationships you want with women. Leaving it to chance will very
likely cause you to end up alone. You've got to take continuous
action.
But what to do? What can a man do that will make him so
attractive to the women he's interested in that they'll not only like
him, but that they'll want to take their clothes off and rub their
bodies against him? Answering that question is the subject of this
book.
We won't lie to you, or hold out some ridiculous claim that simply reading this book will instantly make you into a super-stud who
can go from meeting a woman to getting her into bed in 10 minutes
or less. That's snake-oil salesmanship, and not part of our program,
Effectively seducing women is work. The reason this book will
change your life is that it will show you, for the first time in your life,
exactly what the work is. It's up to you to follow through and to
implement the "science" we'll teach you (though we'll show you
exactly how to do that, too). If you are willing to do the work, the
tools we'll teach you in this book will work for you, just as they have
worked for us and the many men we've taught. The principles are
simple and extremely useful. The steps are easy to learn and easy to
remember. With practice you will master them, and will be more
successful with women than you ever imagined.
men. your way to the date, effectively overcoming her natural fear of you,
and building a bond of fun and excitement between you. We'll then
show you how to effortlessly turn that connection into an accepted
invitation for a date.
A Crash Course in Romance
Many "practical minded" men don't know how to be romantic
in a way that will really make a woman feel special. Furthermore,
romance seems passe; in this age of equality, a man shouldn't have
to romance a woman, should he? Well, yes, he does. You have to be
romantic because it can be a fun way to make a woman see you as
special and exceptionally attractive. We'll show you how to do it.
The Priming and Seduction Dates
We'll teach you about the two kinds of dates, priming and
seduction. We'll show you how each is a different, yet critical, part of
effectively seducing a woman. You'll learn how to find what she
desires in a man, and how to fulfill those desires by bringing those
parts of you alive. You'll learn how to reliably make romantic conversation, and how to construct romantic experiences that will turn
her on, connect her to you, and that she'll remember for the rest of
her life.
Closing the Deal: Going for the First Kiss and More
Done properly, the first kiss is easy. Done improperly—which
is the way most men do it—the first kiss seems more like pulling
teeth. We'll show you exactly how to create an experience in which
the woman is thinking about the kiss, and desires it. We'll teach you
the specifics of how to go for that first kiss, and how to take it much,
much farther immediately.
How to be the Man of her Dreams in Bed
The master seducer understands that he must always be
improving his ability to enjoy sex and to please a woman. We'll show
you how to improve three key areas—your communication, your
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attitude, and your technique. We'll show you how to create that
moment when the date turns sexual, how to excel at foreplay and
afterplay, and what to say and not to say during sex.
When babes attack: handling problems women cause
Sadly, not all of your interactions with women will be easy. In
our experience, and in the experience of our students, the same basic
problems tend to show up again and again. We'll teach you the nine
secrets of handling the problems women cause, and walk you
through, step by step, handling the most common dating difficulties.
Because women are only half the problem (if that), we'll also show
you how to handle the problems you cause in dating situations,
Keeping her
After you've seduced a woman, you have to maintain your connection with her if you want to be able to have sex with her again.
We'll show you the ABC's of maintaining romantic relationships,
and the specific steps you must take to keep her warmed up, happy,
and waiting for you.
Breaking up with her
All short-term relationships come to an end, sooner or later.
We'll show you how to figure out when it's time to end it, and how
to break up in the most merciful way possible so you end up friends.
We'll also show you how to determine if she might be a good candidate for a long-term relationship.
Going from casual to committed
Most men like to "play the field" for a while, then move on to
a long-term relationship. We'll teach you the most important "do's
and don'ts" for creating a relationship that stays passionate, fun, and
loving for the long-term.
Along with all this, we will ask you to be responsible for your
life. We will constantly show you how many of the problems you
blame on women or on "life" are actually caused by your behavior
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