The historic romancer was skilled in writing love letters.
Because he rarely saw the woman before they were married, he
often had to communicate through letters. This was one of the ways
he created hot romance, and you must learn to do it, too. Most
women love letters. We have both had wonderful success using love
letters as tools for seduction and to aid the courting process. For us,
these letters have taken the form of e-mails, cards, notes, and letters.
Women love the thought and effort it takes you to write a note and
send it off to them. It can be a few stanzas of Shakespearean poetry,
or something simple like "I miss your lips touching mine." Or, "I
can't wait until our next secret outing this weekend," Or, "When we
left each other Friday night I forgot to tell you how beautiful your
eyes are." Some women can also handle the hard stuff, like "I can't
wait to get you in bed." but that's risky and to be done only after
you've been having sex with her. It's up to you.
Let's look at this from a purely economic standpoint for a second.
For $2.50 you can buy a great looking card from a specialty shop. Then,
for the price of a stamp you can send the card. These simple actions can
easily cause the woman to melt in her seat. Is it worth it, or not?
The study of romantic letters is a book in itself. What follows
are tips for writing notes. The first thing to realize is that shorter is
better. A few great lines that pack a punch are much better than
some long cheesy diatribe that offers more opportunities for the
woman to dislike the note. It is better to leave her wanting more
than to overdo it and have her confused or thinking you are lying or
manipulating her.
Here are the three elements of every successful love note:
1. Acknowledging how wonderful she is
The more specific you can compliment her the better. For
example, commenting on how her "beautiful brown eyes reflect in a candlelit room" is much better than commenting on how nice her
eyes are. Here are the top few things to comment on:
Her hair
Her eyes
* How sweet she is
* How you just love to stare at her
* Her lips
* The beautiful way she moves
The things to avoid are overtly sexual things about her body.
Here's a few things to avoid commenting on:
* How great her breasts look in a white T-shirt
* How her lips would be great for oral sex
* How great her ass looks in tight jeans
* How you wonder what she'll look like in the morning
2. How great she makes you feel
Now you must talk about how wonderful she makes you feel.
Once again, say something specific. Here are a few things to comment on:
* When we are together I lose myself
* I get that warm feeling all over when we are together
* I've never felt so comfortable with a woman before
3. You are thinking of her
The last essential component is to mention that you are thinking about her and can't wait to see her again. Here are a few possibilities:
* I can't stop thinking about you
* I am holding my breath until I see you next
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